The People Who Hold You Essays

A miscarriage, a mother's journal from an ICU bed & the debt she believes was repaid — doubled

This essay is for you if you've ever had to choose hope again, fully aware of what it might cost you

On seeing the truth of who you are through the eyes of someone who always knew

This essay is for you if you want to honor the person in your life who has always made you feel like you are enough

On being a twin — two stars from the same cloud, still orbiting the same center no matter the distance

This essay is for you if you've ever had a person you didn't discover, because you never knew a version of yourself without them

Female friendship & the language of touch

This essay is for you if you've ever just needed someone to hold your hand in the dark, no questions asked

On finding your way back to the places, & people, that feel like home

This essay is for you if you've been carrying things that are no longer yours to carry, & are ready to set them down

On a rain-soaked wedding day, a phrase meant to keep me close, & the surprising shape it took two years & twelve time zones later

This essay is for you if you've loved someone in another time zone & learned that closeness was never about the clock

The secret language of identical twins & a niece slowly learning it too

This essay is for you if you have someone who reminds you that you’re never as alone as you think